well since i am still getting use to this new computer and learning how to use things, I am doing my monday mingle this week by writing.

Q:1 How often do you move furniture in your living room?

A: about every 6 months or so, it’s nice to get a new fresh look.

Q2: How do you handle hateful comments or emails? Or someone who annoys you n person?

A: Thats really hard for me, because I am a very honest and blunt person and I will not hesitate to tell someone to go F*** off. I have to just put it off and ignore the comments and emails, they can be deleted. With someone who annoys you, I would tell them I don’t want you around me right now, please just leave me alone.

Q3:ONe ting you will never blog about?

A: I really can’t think about one thing, there are topics I avoid like politics, racism etc. Sometimes my thoughts are just so strong about a topic, that I don’t care what others think and speak my mind.  an example would be gay bullying, I have no problem with gays and I got a lot of backlash for supporting it so publicly on my blog, I had to take down the posts.

Another example and this wasn’t even a hard topic. Is it right for a parent to bring their kids to a spa/salon. The writer was against it saying that salons are a time for moms to relax, not put up with kids whining/misbehaving. I responded with some parents don’t have money to get a babysitter or daycare to go to the spa, but still want a nice manicure.  It started a fire storm with bloggers, saying that if they can’t afford a babysitter they don’t need to be going to the salon etc.

I think that’s so unfair, I am low-income and don’t have a baby sitter, daycare. If I am treated to a spa day, I’m going to take it and bring my kids.

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