So I have decided to attend the wedding with my hubby. (sometimes you need to give in to make your spouse happy). I’m still looking for alternatives for babysitting. If i have to wear jeans i will.

Ultimately I am leaving at 830 900 to put my children to put. I don’t think staying out all night is fair to my kids. so a couple hours won’y kill me, i guess. 

thanks to all who left suggestions