Yes I am married and have been for 6 years. The reason for the title, well my wedding secret.
In 2004 after dating on and off my boyfriend and I decided we needed to live together if we were going to make it work. He was in the Army and we lived in different states. So I moved to Colorado, We were flat broke and didn’t have any or anything. We decided to get married, there was no proposing, no ring, we mutually agreed.
Off to Walmart to buy cheap gold bands and then t o the courthouse. We were married in front of a judge with no witness. No flowers, no Wedding Dress( I wore a black prom dress), no honeymoon, nothing, just us in a plain court room
We didn’t tell our family we were married. My husband told his parents after a couple weeks, and I told mine after like 5 months. See I was 19 at the time and my mom hated that my brother eloped, so I didn’t have the heart to tell her. Plus she would of never let me do it. I finally told her and she was so crushed, I hated myself.
So I have one small token of that night a single picture, well besides thats the night that I became pregnant but thats a different story. LOL
(No I am not pregnant in this picture, the dress is just makes me look fat.
I want the beautiful pictures and family and memories with a real wedding, someday.