I have always been the kind of person that puts everyone else needs before me. I did it when I was younger and now that I am a mother even more so. If my children, my husband, my house need something I will always put that ahead of myself.
Now that I am almost 30, it’s catching up with me, and I need a lot of dental work done and fall ill very easy. I am not the perfect mother, I have let myself go, and am reminded about it daily through strangers comments or just pain.
See, I have always had acne and at times can look like a 18 yr old girl, instead of 29. So I am use to the snarky comments and bullying. I am asked daily if my children are actually mine.
It’s hurtful, but honestly it’s really no ones business.
I am not the perfect mother on the outside but, so what? Who cares? All that should matter is that I take care of mu children and they are happy and healthy. I don’t spoil them and can’t afford over the top things, but they have all the basic necessities in life.
Now that all my health issues are catching up with me, I am trying to make myself better on the outside to stay healthy for my kids. Neve realized even with insurance how much it would cost, or a hassle it would be become.
So I am not perfect and I probably never will be, but I am myself and thats all that matters! 🙂